I hate throwing food away. I hate $200 grocery bills. I definitely hate the “what are we going to have for dinner” conversation (so much that I posted about it here).
I hate making bad food decisions. And I hate ordering out (It’s always more expensive than I think it should be, I’m never happy when they say, we’ll have that ready for you in 45 minutes, and I eat too much).
Lets be clear: I hate all of these things.
I used to “meal plan” in my head. I’d get a few dinners in my head and make my grocery list based on those thoughts. I would inevitably come home with a little more than planned (even with my list) and never get through it all by the end of the week.
All of my hates were still happening.
I thought it was meal planning, but it wasn’t. I know, how annoying, everyone’s talking about meal planning, but hear me out (and thanks for letting me indulge in my Zoolander joke).
In January when we went plant-based, I had no idea what I was doing. Mental meal planning no longer worked. I was forced to write it out.
With writing it out, several things happened: my weeknight dinner anxiety decreased, we wasted less food, my grocery bills shrank and
the kids eat all of the food on their plates and sit still at the dinner table until everyone finished their meal. Haha – I wish I could say meal planning was the magic wand for this one too, but I digress.
Meal planning is exactly what it sounds like. Below is how I do it.
Disclaimer: I’m sure everyone has their own way, but this works for our family. “Works for our family” means that I might stray (read: fail) one week and not meal plan. Or it might be a tough week and I might create a meal plan that has “Ch’kn” Nuggets + broccoli, followed by Mac & Cheese + green beans. I just get back on the saddle the following week because, overall, the planning really is one of those: make the investment now – pays dividends later type of thing.
Step 1: Find a Place to Display it
I re-purposed a chalkboard that was a baptism gift for the boys. The top is permanently inscribed with “Prayers for Today.” Unintentionally, this works to remind me on a weekly basis to be grateful for the food to which we have access (sorry to get serious there for a minute, but even though I joked at the top about the things “I hate” I am well aware of the privilege we have to eat our food). It also helps manage my boys’ expectations for the week’s meals.
Step 2: Write Out the Plan
If we have anything left-over in the fridge, I plans meals around that to ensure food does not get wasted. From there, I go with what sounds good and works with our schedules for the week (i.e. if I have a girls night on Wednesday, Tuesday’s dinner will be large enough to provide left-overs for Wednesday).
Thursday nights are ALWAYS Mac & Cheese night for the boys. This probably sounds counter to the last two posts (and here). But I believe in moderation and balance. Moderation: they’re getting really good food the rest of the week and the mac & cheese is always served with a vegetable that they must also eat. Balance: mommy and daddy (yes, daddy helps with dinner / clean-up) need a night off!
Step 3: Make a Grocery List
After I plan the meals, I make my grocery list based on what the recipes require, what we already have and any staples that need to be replenished. I always re-order the list so it follows the lay-out of the store. That makes it easier for me to get through the store quickly and not forget anything.
Step 4: Meal Preparation
If you read this post from last summer, you know I chop all of my veggies on Sundays (again, like the meal planning, sometimes I fail at this and then regret it all week). Chopped veggies make me feel like I have my sh%& together no matter what is falling apart around me. Like when I RSVPed to my companies’ baseball outing without realizing that it was the same day as my youngest’s 2nd birthday (shout-out to my super smart 4 year old who helped me figure this out).
Step 5: Have Grace with the List
Sometimes, I get home from work and what’s on the list doesn’t sound good. So I swap with another night. The list won’t hold me down!
Step 6: If your Husband Offers to Help, Let Him
I shouldn’t have to type this, right? With the meal planning board displayed in our kitchen and the vegetables all chopped, my husband can often start dinner if he gets home before me.
It took me months to let go and let him help. Here is this man that I’ve been telling that it was all too much and I need his help. Then I’m denying his help?! What kind of martyr complex, score-keeper am I?
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